The first dance at a wedding is often considered an important and symbolic moment. It symbolizes the unity of the couple, celebrates their love, and creates a lifelong special memory. With shows like ABC’s Dancing with the Stars bringing a greater awareness to partnership dancing and what danceperformances could look like, many couples desire a similar outcome. If you are interested in a creating a memorable wedding dance, here are 8 things to know when it comes to your first dance:

Start Early

Wedding planning can take months and the last thing you need at the last minute is to add on the stress of learning how to dance together. As soon as you begin planning, have a conversation with your partner about expectations and desires for your first dance together. Topics to discuss might include song choice, budget, and level of commitment.

Take Dance Lessons

Consider taking ballroom dance lessons to learn the basics of social dancing, techniques for leading & following, and dance floor etiquette. And if desired, your dance teacher can choreograph a routine to your special song especially for you. Professionals recommend at least 2-3 months of lessons prior to the wedding day.

Choose the Right Song

Select a song that holds special meaning for both of you. Consider the tempo, lyrics, and mood to ensure it fits well with your style. Song length is also important. Did you know most songs performed on Dancing with the Stars are only about 1 minute long? Wedding dance consultants recommend a song that is 2-3 minutes long. You may want to edit your song to match that time frame. Also consider the different options when hiring a live band versus a DJ.

Know Your Dance Floor

Venue layout, square footage, flooring, and entertainment all factor in to what you’ll want to know about the floor you’ll be dancing on. Some questions to consider: What’s the square footage? What shape will the dance floor be, square, rectangle, circular, etc? Where will guests be seated? Where will the bridal party be seated? What type of flooring is used? How much space will the band or DJ need?

Whatever Shall I Wear?

Most brides wear their wedding gown for the reception but many change clothing. Whatever your preference, consider the length, fabric, and fit of your attire. It’s not a bad idea to practice dancing in your outfit (or underskirt) and shoes before the big day.

Practice, Practice, Practice

As stated earlier, it’s best to begin sooner rather than later. This will give you both time to get comfortable dancing together and for the choreography of the danceto sink in and become muscle memory. Those choreographed routines from Dancing with the Stars take 6-10 hours of daily practice to create an impressive look in such a short period of time. Who’s got time for that? So, create time weekly to practice with one another. Think of it like a date night!

What About the Others?

Some brides and grooms invite their moms and dads and wedding party to partake in dance lessons alongside them. This way, come reception time, the dance floor will be full of vibrant, happy dancers.

Relax, Have Fun, & Capture the Moment

Remember to enjoy the process and have fun while learning and practicing your dance. Focus on the joy of dancing together and celebrating your love. Be sure to have a photographer and/or videographer to capture it all. And don’t forget how much your friends & family will enjoy it. They may shed a tear or they may be green with envy. Either way it’ll be a cherished memory for years to come.